Guilty...

sigh.... it suddenly dawned onto dh and myself tt we seems to be expecting too much out of Kady.
This is after Vera's born...

I guess sub-consciously we have been comparing Kady and Vera...
what I meant was when we have a new baby at home, we kinda expected Kady to be the big sister and to behave in a more mature manner.
We have "forgotten" that Kady is afterall only a 4 year old little girl. :(

To be honest, when we take a step back to see Kady in a new light, she has been pretty mature for a 4 year old. She readily accept Vera as her baby sister and helped take stuff for us (for Vera like diapers, wet tissue, etc) too...

I think for the past month, both dh and myself are guilty of being too strict and setting our expectations of her alittle too high... We will now constantly remind each other that Kady is still only 4yrs old and we should cut her some slack...