Thursday, March 5, 2009

Anytime Now???

bro sms me abt2 days ago.
said grandpa has this respiratory bug that is resistant to antibiotics.
then today, I get another sms.
grandpa's condition is critical...
we are all guessing should be soon.
The doc had initially told us within 3 months' and it seemed that it is like what he said...

I was just telling dh y'day that I felt that all these while, grandpa is hanging on cos of grandma.
He cant let go cos he's afraid no one will look after her.
His strength/ will power to struggle on came from his love for her.
(I wish and pray that my hubby will love me this much too....)
But I wont want him to suffer cos of me...

altho' we have had some time now to prepare for this...
still - it hurts... it hurts bad.

I pray hard that grandpa's departure would be a painless one.
He has suffered enough.

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